I saw you standing with me,
I know you were there,
But when trying times had come,
I saw u lost somewhere...
It's hard to let you go,
Wonder if those memories I'd ever forget,
But one thing I know for sure,
This moment I will never regret...
No no.. I haven't broken up with my boyfriend yet. But can i deny the fact that I have felt these things sometimes in my life?
I am sure you will all agree that there have been times in our lives when we are sitting with the person we claim to love but our minds still wander elsewhere.
Sometimes we spend time with wrong people but it still feels so right. Times when we have all the fun with our loved ones and times when we just need to be alone, by ourselves, taking care of ourselves. We need no one around to tell us what to do and what not to do. Ruling our own lives.
And then comes a time when we are in a dilemma, trying hard to decide if what is happening is right or wrong.
A BREAK UP: its funny how opinions vary about this one topic.
All the feelings, emotions, love, drama, dreams, etc, etc, etc come gushing down. But are these thoughts sensible enough? Obviously not! It's just an impulse. Have you ever wondered why we come to a point of a break up?? It's because you no longer are comfortable and happy with the person you once thought was ''THE ONE.''
Ever wondered why we cry after the break up? May be because all your memories haunt you, or also may be because you are regretting all the time you wasted in the name of LOVE! No doubt, It is difficult to forget all the time you have spent together. But is it impossible??
I am not against love. No. I am deeply in love with my man. Or so would i like to tell myself every morning. Exactly, What is love? Well, we have our own opinions, views, definitions about this one word.
come to think of it, a break up is not the bad part of a relationship. It could be the good part too. After all we learn so much from it. You could do everything you want and there is no one to tell you if you are going the wrong way. Of course, sometimes being wrong also feels right! And we learn from our mistakes. Why do we need everything spoon fed? These are just a few points I have listed. If you sit and think about it I am sure you will find hundred more reasons to be happy.
You could call me a hypocrite, an optimist but that is just one person's view shall i say.
I'd just conclude saying that a break up is not only about tears and loneliness, if you see so.. It's the beginning of a new, better, brighter and a mysterious life!
Cheers!!
